Cultural education is a strong component of Eagle's Nest Center's mission along
with transitional care and restorative justice work.
In an
effort to educate, we'd like to share the following article during November's
National American Indian Heritage month. Please see Ms. Ramierz's web
sites, www.walk-in-peace.com
for her parenting book, and
www.parenting-child-development.com, which is her parenting web
site, for further information.
Ancient Native Values Inspire Mainstream Culture
Written by Laura Ramierz
November is National American Indian Heritage Month, and it’s the
perfect time to reflect upon the values that Native people have contributed to
mainstream society. Since these values are central to sound leadership, it makes
sense to consider them as voters determine who will be the next president.
Although these values are deeply rooted in Native culture, it may be surprising
to learn that they are the foundation for many of the mainstream beliefs held
today.
Respect
for Nature
At the
heart of the conservationist movement is a respect for nature that has its roots
in Native people’s deep reverence for the earth and the practical understanding
that people must harness, rather than exploit the earth’s resources, so they can
be enjoyed by generations to come. Native people have practiced this belief by
taking only what they needed from the earth. Underlying this is the
understanding that it is the human capacity for consciousness that dictates the
role as caretakers of the earth.
Inclusion
To indigenous people, life is represented by the circle. In the
circle, there is room for everybody. No one is first. No one is last. Everyone
is equal. Each person is seen as having something to contribute to the whole.
This same philosophy is beginning to show itself in an understanding of the
level of consciousness to which Americans must aspire to strengthen diplomatic
relations with other countries in a world where diminishing resources will have
to be rationed and shared, at least until new energy sources can be developed.
Of course, before Americans can achieve this, they must learn to practice it at
home. While America’s diversity provides ample opportunities, it is not enough
to practice tolerance because this merely requires tolerating each other.
Diplomacy means accepting differences and moving beyond them to find common
ground.
When white people first set foot on this continent, Native people welcomed them
with open arms because they saw beyond surface differences and recognized the
humanity that binds all people as humans. If Americans are to survive the
environmental and financial dilemmas of today, they must accept differences,
roll up their sleeves and work together toward the common good.
Americans do not realize that it is this philosophy that the founding fathers
borrowed from the accords of the people of the Six Nations (Iroquois, Tuscaroras,
Mohawks, Oneidas, Onondagas, Cayugas and Senecas) that became the basis for the
U.S. Constitution and the belief in “life, liberty and the pursuit of
happiness.” The founding fathers were inspired by the participatory democracy
of the Six Nations, which was the first of its kind. Although history claims
that Native people were led by chiefs, in truth, they were led by councils made
up of individuals whose expertise, vision and humanity were trusted because they
served the best interests of the people.
Child
Stewardship
In the book “Keepers of the Children: Native American Wisdom and
Parenting,” I write that when a Native woman is pregnant, she is said to have a
piece of turquoise inside her womb. When that piece of turquoise is born into
the world, it is the parents’ job not to break it or try to make it into
something other than what it is, but to polish it, until its unique beauty comes
to light.
This is a strengths-based way of parenting that was practiced by Native people.
These beliefs are also reflected in the principles behind developments in
happiness psychology. When you raise your children in this way, they become
progressively aware of who they are and what their strengths are. This is
essential because with the state of affairs in the world today, it is the adults
who learned to bring their unique strengths to the table as kids who will
possess the ingenuity and confidence required to create a better world.
Einstein said that people can’t solve problems at the level of consciousness at
which they were created. I believe that one way to solve the problems is to
raise children to develop their strengths and critical thinking skills, so they
will use them to make unique contributions to society.
Vision
Quest
Although the vision quest has been a long standing tradition in
the Native world, the quest to lead a purposeful life – a recent trend
popularized by widespread middle-aged dissatisfaction in America – comes
directly from this practice. In the Native culture, adolescence is seen as the
perfect time for a vision quest because this is when a child begins to
individuate from the parents and has a deep yearning to know who he is and why
he is here.
Taught how to survive in the wilderness since childhood, the Native adolescent
is taken to a remote place (the desert, a forest or the mountains) and left
alone for a few days without food, water or any of the comforts or distractions
of modern life. As the young man grows thirsty, hungry and tired, he is forced
to rely on himself and call upon his inner strengths. It is the act of looking
within for strength, rather than looking outside for validation, that helps the
young person discover the purpose inside him waiting to unfold.
When a child is brought up to act from his purpose, he learns how to lead a life
of meaning and fulfillment. At the same time, by offering his strengths and
vision to society, he makes a lasting contribution to the world. In this way,
the individual and society benefit.
Although society tends to focus on the ways in which Native Americans have
assimilated the values of mainstream culture, it is possible now to see that the
adoption of ideas was mutual. Strong indigenous values will continue to shape
the way Americans see the world. This is the legacy of Native people – something
Americans can honor and celebrate – particularly during National American Indian
Heritage Month.
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Laura Ramirez is the author of the award-winning book, “Keepers of the
Children: Native American Wisdom and Parenting” and the publisher of “Family
Matters Parenting Magazine.”